Thursday, April 10, 2008

zinger + skunk = smelly

she waited until she was ten years old, but zinger has finally made one of the more infamous canine rites of passage: she got skunked. drew took her on a walk last night and calls me starting off with "i've got bad news... (l - o - n - g pause)" and then proceeded to tell me the completely un-bad news that she'd been skunked. BAD news is she got hit by a car and is dead, which is what i immediately thought given his tone, so getting skunked, while undoubtedly something better avoided, did not seem so bad. that said, i'm not the one who washed her. that became the exclusive purview of mr. drew when he fired me from said task upon coming to live with us in pittsburgh as he thought i wasn't sufficiently gentle. my lack of incorporating a nice massage was deemed cruel and unusual. no good deed goes unpunished, ha ha ha! this is how he spent his evening.

in other equally stinky news, figuratively of course, anti-flag was in town recently for their show and i couldn't go on account of my gimpy back. curses!!! i was pretty bummed, but drew was right (as usual) that i shouldn't go. i did get to hang out with justin the next day, as he decided to fly up to portland so he could get some rest at lucy's house, so that took away a lot of the sting of missing the show everyone else was at: lg2, trump and his friends, mike & galen, cindy and her boyfriend, my cousin kenny; i missed them all. ah well... not much to be done for it.

and last but not least, my first interview for the resident minister position was on monday. it went alright. i was feeling a little bit off my game, what with my back and all, but overall i think it went well. hopefully they'll invite me back for a second one and then hire me, so please, all prayers and positive energy to that end are appreciated.

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

the bright lights of america!!!

















hey everybody!!! anti-flag's new cd, the bright lights of america, is in stores TODAY!!!! i've been listening to the album on their myspace page pretty much non-stop the past week and while im might be slightly biased, i've gotta say it's a lot of fun. i especially like vices, go west, and good & ready. and the title track. and spit in the face... i guess i could keep going and just say i like them all, because i do. GO BUY A COPY (or ten) TODAY!!! or at least this first week... strong first week sales are very important, and you know you'll have my eternal gratitude.

also, they put out a spoof newspaper (it is april fool's day, after all) of all the news that we wish was real, and it's very entertaining.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

ouch!


hidy ho, boys and girls! as you may have noticed, i've been MIA most of this month, and i owe it all to my herniated disc. yes, i have a herniated disc, and take it from me: it blows. not only does it hurt like a mofo - nothing like shooting pains down the outside of the left leg from the nerve the bulging disc is pinching! - but it takes about six to eight weeks to get better. can you believe that? couldn't i have managed to injure myself in a less time-consuming and debilitating way?

i'm at week three, so i'm looking at another three to four weeks of recovery time. what have i been doing? well, i missed most of the past two weeks of work and will soon be starting a short-term disability leave. i have become well-acquainted with the tried and true ice pack, and when i just can't stand it i take a painkiller, though i try not to unless i'm really dying because those things scare me. getting addicted to percocet is the last thing i need. the activity that kills most, besides walking, is sitting in chairs. kind of hard to go to work in an office and not sit on a chair for very long. i did try this past wednesday & thursday, just to see if i could hang in there or if i needed to take the leave, and thought i would die yesterday; instead i stayed home, iced, took pain pills and watched the boob tube. the best position in terms of avoiding pain, thus far, is laying down, flat on my back. sadly, it's not quite the same as "woo hoo - i'm getting lucky!" flat on my back - ugh, ugh, ugh.... and i had to cancel my much anticipated trip home. wah!!! that really sucked, though i was very happy all my friends got together for the dinner party that christie and david had generously volunteered to host (in my honor? that sounds too pretentious. how about in order for us all to get together and visit? i like that a lot better.)

i am trying to look on the bright side. first off, it's not like this is fatal, just a complete pain in the ass (almost literally). oh, that reminds me... drew was teasing me when i was feeling quite sorry for myself one day that maybe i'd need a buttectomy, which was really rather funny. my boss has been absolutely sensational, which just takes a load off my mind and makes me appreciate working for him even more. i can catch up on my knitting and reading and sleep, spend some time with the furry critters, and basically be shiftless - at least until i start physical therapy. the thing is, being shiftless is a whole lot more fun when you're able to go do things. i haven't gone with drew and zinger on walks in four weeks - easy - and forget the beach. it's only a ten minute walk away but that might as well be ten miles at the moment. i haven't been spending as much time with tommy as i'd like because that usually involves sitting on the floor in the garage with him, and that's just not so comfy. but the weather is starting to get nicer (the wisteria is starting to bloom!) so perhaps he & i & zinger can hang out on the deck.

worst case scenario i can always call my dad for an attitude adjustment, and re-visit the year i gave up self-pity for lent. it was pretty successful, and i've never gotten into feeling sorry for myself in quite the same way since. :)

Monday, March 3, 2008

happy birthday dad!!!


i'm a day late with the post, but i wasn't with singing happy birthday to the answering machine! yesterday was my awesome dad's birthday - happy birthday, dad! you can see him in this slightly outdated picture (in terms of years, not the wife. that part is still up to date!) drew and i sang happy birthday into the answering machine, since we missed the birthday boy in person, which was a lot of fun. it is not uncommon in my family to get anywhere from one to six messages from people singing happy birthday to you. drew was bummed that we didn't get dad on the phone in part because he has come up with some new angle to harass him. those two were made for each other. i think my little brother outdid us, though, as he got the crowd at their show in manchester to sing happy birthday for dad, and that was a whole lot of people... several hundred at least. way to go, baby bro!!!

happy birthday, pops! we'll talk to you later today!!!!

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

busy, busy, busy

i am making progress on the hoodie i am making for my nephew, owen, aka mr. cute, as you can see for yourself. mind you, this is an old picture so i'm sure he's a lot bigger. aforementioned hoodie will be way too big for him as i'm making the three year old size and he's just two, but seeing as how it was supposed to be a first bday present, i decided it was better err on the side of caution, and he'll grow into it soon enough. damn, he really is a cutie. :)

apart from that, i'm not really busy, but drew, poor boy, is crazy busy with work and school among other things. he's starting at a new client location on monday up in milpitas, of all fricking places. milpitas = much longer commute, fyi for the non-bay area crowd. and longer for him means longer for me, so i can only hope this next contract is short and/or we get our act together to buy another car. i guess we'll see.

i have some pictures i need to get off my phone from the weekend. there was a storm and while it didn't seem too bad in terms of rain, the beach was just wild. never seen the waves so big and you couldn't actually go onto the beach because the water was coming the whole way up and over the road into the little lagoon across the way. very cool, and we were completely safe, no worries of getting swept away. :) i mean, you could have gone onto the beach, but you'd have had to run back pretty quickly or else you'd have been wet up to your knees or mid-calf, and nobody wants to bother with that in february, even in nocal.

Friday, February 15, 2008

politics and puppy dogs

ah... there's nothing like eating a little crow, is there? after my big old rant in the "it's a bummer edwards withdraws from the presidential race" post a few weeks back i have to come clean: barack obama is slowly sucking me in. i said as much to drew last night and was relieved to hear him tell me it was happening to him, too. whew! i am not sure what it is or what to make of it, because while i admire the idea of healing the divisions in our country and changing the tone of the public discourse as much as the next person, i also believe that nothing short of being completely committed and willing to go to mat and be just as ruthless as they are will work when dealing with the current crop of right-wing conservatives who have made the uber-partisan, nasty, fearful and intolerant america of today possible. i also think paul krugman, nytimes opinion writer and economist, is correct in his analysis of the slight but important differences between hillary clinton and barack obama's policy positions.

and yet. i think obama has a better chance than clinton in the general election. there's none of the "clinton baggage" that is so popularly bandied about at the moment, and that's unfortunate because it's such bullshit. the "clinton baggage" is misogyny for the most part, imho, especially from the right-wingers who hate her with an irrational zeal. there are people who dislike her because of her politics, although they tend toward the more rational end of the spectrum. i personally think she and bill are nothing more than reagan democrats who were good for the clintons but really quite bad for the democratic party, and consequently i haven't been too impressed with either of them. hillary is vilified for staying in her marriage, but she'd have been as equally vilified had she left bill because of the out of bounds blow jobs. it's their marriage, let them decide how to proceed; i have my hands quite full with my (happy) own, thank you very much. i can't come up with any good reason why the right-wingers get so rabid about her, except that they're threatened by what she stands for: smart, intelligent, forthright women who don't necessarily want or need them. the rush limbaugh's of the world wouldn't have anyone to make them dinner and make sure they take their oxycontin pills on schedule. i am sure poor rush just trembles at the thought of it.


but it's more than just that. i listened to obama's "call to renewal" speech (june 2006) today, which was the keynote address for a call to renewal/sojourners meeting (they've merged as sojourners), a christian faith and justice group that i am a member of, actually. you have to scroll all the way down to the bottom of the video clips on the obama for president site to get the entire speech, btw. i agree with what he says in this speech. i agree that progressives who refuse or are afraid to talk about how their faith/spirituality informs their politics are making a mistake of colossal proportions, because they're letting the jerry falwells and pat robertsons of the world define what politics informed by religious faith/spirituality is in america. that's incredibly dangerous because speaking to people in religious terms, as obama goes on to say, is a form of communication that is readily accessible to americans, especially as so many of the great reformers in our history have been people of faith of one form or another. they've spoken in religious language in part to give their arguments moral authority, but also because it's something people are familiar with and understand. i'm a theologian by training and this has always been my problem with progressives who are uncomfortable, unwilling or unable to engage the politics informed by faith/spirituality question. it's not either church or state, it's a balancing act of both. you don't have to have politics informed by faith/spirituality, but you can't pretend it doesn't exist for most other people and that it's important in american politics. not just today, either, but historically it always has been. if you won't even try, or even acknowledge this reality, you let the other side define the terms, and whoever defines the terms in politics will always do it to their side's advantage. it's not rocket science, kids; it's human nature.

i guess, as much as this makes me feel like a sheep to admit it, it's nice to feel that someone is at least trying to be positive and stay above all the republican sleaze. i mean, if he does get the nomination the sleaze machine will hit him like a runaway train, make no mistake. but i keep getting this funny feeling that he might just manage to deflect it. or enough of it. so i don't know... i've always said americans will elect a black man for president before they'll elect a woman. maybe it's my brutally dim view of the open-mindedness of america that's nudging me along. in any event, it's not like i have to make my mind up now.

as for the puppies part, well, if you're an animal sucker or tender hearted you might want to skip this new york times article about the best friends animal society's efforts to rehabilitate the poor doggies that were part of michael vick's dog fighting ring. there are other groups, too, like BADRAP, who are doing similar work, but best friends is the organization profiled in the article. you read about some of the Mengele-esque abuse the poor animals suffered which is simply horrifying and heartbreaking, but you also learn about all the really committed, wonderful people who are trying to help, too. that made it worth it for me to read it. that and the great picture of one of the shelter staff crashed out with one of the dogs. totally sweet and hopeful.

i only came across the nytimes article yesterday and was astounded to learn, because i didn't follow the story too closely because it was just so appalling, that instead of euthanizing the poor victims at the center of the dismal affair, i.e. the dogs, as is usual in these cases and was urged by both the humane society and people for the ethical treatment of animals, that the authorities decided to evaluate the dogs for their potential to be rehabilitated. the american society for the prevention of cruelty to animals was one of the animal welfare groups that urged this course of action, which made me happy as i already support them but now i will increase that support. as for peta, they'll never see another dollar of my money ever again, the self-righteous hypocrites. i know that's not entirely fair, i understand where they're coming from on the one hand because they're high risk dogs, no doubt about it. it's just the horribly-abused = unsalvageable-summary-execution argument coming from them is more than i can stomach. pits are such wonderful dogs and i definitely want one someday, and that whole unsalvageable attitude/rationale just reinforces all of the misperceptions about the breed. did you know petey, the good rascals dog, was a pit? well, he was, so think on that! but i digress...

most of the dogs will, eventually, be able to be adopted, even though it could be quite some time before they've healed enough. those that can't be adopted will have a permanent home at the best friends animal society's animal sanctuary. it's being paid for courtesy of an almost million dollar fine that vick, the evil fucking scum bag loser who hanging is too good for, was ordered to pay as part of his sentence. all i can say is he's lucky i wasn't his judge. i am hard-pressed when it comes to my christian duty to have any sort of compassion for someone who abuses the most defenseless among us. he's probably more to be pitied than scorned, given that his inner life must be so devoid of any compassion, richness and beauty that he thinks it's okay to treat animals in the manner he did, but people like him make it awfully easy to scorn them.


Tuesday, February 12, 2008

new anti-flag music!!!

in case you've been living under a rock, the new Anti-Flag album, The Bright Lights of America, is coming out on april 1st. you can hear the title track on the Flag's myspace page. and you can hear another track, good and ready, on the alternative press web site. as for the rest, we have to wait, even me. since i'm not at ground zero (the beautiful 'burgh), anymore i don't get to hear anything beforehand... sigh! :_(